Assalam o Alaikum Initially, i want to mention something. And because this act is a later development and deviation of man, we have to rely on the jurists amongst the scholars for an opinion. Indeed in that are signs for those who discern. Allah, who created us, the heavens, the earth, and everything in between, in His Divine and Perfect Wisdom and Knowledge created and ordained the laws for everything. Anal Intercourse The opinions of our mujtahids vary on the permissibility of anal intercourse. Some scholars have also termed it absolutely forbidden. The Prophet peace and blessings be upon him did not say anything to him until the verse cited above was revealed. The Jews say that if a man has intercourse with his wife in her vagina from behind, the child will have a squint. It is an abomination and a grave sin in the eyes of Allah, and in Islam the doers of this sin are punishable by death! Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong. But, the wife is not considered divorced as many people think, because there is no evidence to support this view. And there are many similar ahaadeeth. So approach from the front or the back, but avoid the back passage and the time of menses. And the two who commit it among you, dishonor them both. However, scholars maintain that if a man habitually does this or insists on having anal sex with his wife, she has the right to ask for a divorce, because he is considered an evildoer who is causing harm by his action, and also because the purpose of marriage cannot be achieved through this action. And leave what your Lord has created for you as mates? There is nothing wrong, according to Islam, for a woman to be active and responsive during sex.