If she says she's ready for sex, then do a private cheer, get your condoms, and get ready to get it on. If you've never been alone in her place before, and she invites you in, then she may be telling you she wants something more from you. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral sex is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms. There are condoms that help delay your time of arrival incase you need that. Next time your in bed with a woman, pay attention to her, even ask her what her favorite position is beforehand to enhance your night. You need to learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris. This doesn't mean that she's ready for sex, but it does make it more likely that she wants to be intimate. If you get angry or try to pressure her, then she'll be second guessing your relationship right away. Take some control Men do most of the deciding on positions so learn them! And on top of this, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and MUCH more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse. If you're already in the bedroom and part -- or most -- of your clothes are off, then it is time to ask her for confirmation that she is ready to take things to the next level. What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral sex, and she will love you for it. Falling asleep next to a person can feel almost as intimate as sex, so if she's trying to stay at your place, she may be telling you she's ready for the next step. She'll appreciate that you can be subtle and open at the same time. This is a big steaming heap of BS.