Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond. My tension melted with that, realizing that I wasn't going to get into any trouble over the incident. A lot of women would rather know that your fumbling is inexperience, rather than just sheer ineptitude, and will gratefully show you the ways of the world. Her hand left her zipper hasp and went to her side, clutching the bed spread. And "feeling good" should last past the sex itself-- you should not feel anxious afterwards about getting her pregnant or catching some horrible disease, so planning ahead about contraception and safe sex is part of the idea. She had a queen bed, so there was plenty of room. There were magazines for all sorts of tastes, including straight, lesbian, gay, even a few kinkier types. I've got other plans for your cock. I obviously won't hide anything from you. She was 5 years older than me and unmarried with a 3-bedroom house with a large yard, so she wanted to have some help with some yard work. Her rhythm and intensity was such that it was not long at all before I was ready to cum. Get to know each other's bodies. After a minute or so, Lynn went to turn the page in her book, glancing briefly over at me. Birth control, condoms, maybe your favorite pillow or a bathrobe. One evening, maybe two weeks after I had started sneaking peeks, my sister knocked at my door. She came in and I could see that she was about ready for bed as well.